About Us

Stand With Him was founded by Shahara, a passionate young woman from London, England.
She witnessed her own father face domestic violence and a male friend unfairly treated in the family court system. Two scenarios which often lead to devastating ends. These were the catalysts for her in researching the brutal treatment of men and the horrific statistics surrounding male suicide. She wanted to tackle this and discovered the following areas of primary need for men. They are counselling, coaching and mentoring. This was the birth of Stand With Him. Shahara calls this quiet activism, she has been involved in providing talk therapy and coaching to vulnerable men and focuses on elevating them.

Our Work

Specialised in Mens Elevation

● FREE talk therapy sessions for men.
We have prioritised this to be cost free as we believe it is the most important and effective. We will strive to be a place of peace, understanding and comfort. We WANT to help you, and you deserve to see the beauty not only in life but within yourself. Whatever you are going through, you are worth it and we are here to help
● Affordable coaching/mentoring
This focuses on bringing out and elevating your masculine qualities. We also want to invest in exploring your talents and interests. Whatever it is, from carpentry, nutrition, fishing, style consulting, mechanics or filmmaking. Literally anything! We will help you make it profitable and enjoy the process!
● We also have a telegram group dedicated to our clients and likeminded people. The community is a space of healing, strength, encouragement and continued assistance. There are important daily dicussions, reminders, tips and notifications of our upcoming events such as courses and workshops. All surrounding mens elevation.We're waiting for you, so please reach out and we cannot wait to see you grab life with all your might and LIVE!WE'RE IN THIS TOGETHER 💪A few extra but important notes:
Through talk therapy we purely focus on being your listening and understanding ears. We do not provide legal counsel or assistance.
• Contact form is open for all:
For the free sessions, coaching or getting involved.
• Either Shahara or another kind volunteer will be available to help.
Sessions are run via zoom, you are not obliged to show your face at all. (Think of it as a zoom phone call)
Zoom allows us to connect with clients internationally
• All sessions are completely confidential
(The affordable coaching helps to keep the talk therapy free and pay for other running costs)If you would like to donate anything to our cause you may do so via our Stripe link provided under contact, thank you for investing in Stand With Him and our mission to end male suicide.

We are always on the look out for volunteers, coaches, mentors, sponsors and ambassadors to join our mission.
However you'd like to get involved, please contact us and add your desired role at the start. Eg: "Volunteering"
It means the world to have genuine people wanting change and help whatever way they can. No effort is ever too little.
Thank you and we will be in touch!

Contact Us

”We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.“- Thomas Jefferson

Thank You

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